Q38. What
would you say to your boss if he’s crazy about an idea, but you
think it stinks?
TRAPS: This
is another question that pits two values, in this case loyalty and honesty,
against one another.
BEST
ANSWER: Remember the rule stated earlier: In any conflict
between values, always choose integrity.
Example: I believe that when evaluating anything, it’s important
to emphasize the positive. What do I like about this idea?”
“Then, if you have reservations, I certainly want to point them
out, as specifically, objectively and factually as I can.”
“After all, the most important thing I owe my boss is honesty.
If he can’t count on me for that, then everything else I may do
or say could be questionable in his eyes.”
“But I also want to express my thoughts in a constructive way.
So my goal in this case would be to see if my boss and I could make
his idea even stronger and more appealing, so that it effectively overcomes
any initial reservation I or others may have about it.”
“Of course, if he overrules me and says, ‘no, let’s
do it my way,’ then I owe him my full and enthusiastic support
to make it work as best it can.”